I enjoy being able to share true stories of those that inspire me. These are folks that have overcome challenges, they maybe meeting some obstacle head-on, or
starting a business from the ground up.
Over the next few weeks and months I will be sharing stories of these Warriors. These are people from different backgrounds and of various ages. I hope you glean wisdom and courage from this lovely group.
Please share with others to help others that may be experiencing similar challenges. God bless and thanks for reading.
I befriended Kim several years ago on social media. We shared similar past experiences and that bound us together. I have seen her posts from happy to very dramatic regarding her health. She recently came forward publicly to bring awareness to others about her situation.
Here is her story...
April 2016- Kim and her youngest Daughter |
I asked when Kim when she noticed something was not quite right with her health, she replied, "It started with depression after my last baby, age 32. Diagnosed as Postpartum depression and put on antidepressants. Than, 4 years later, I started experiencing fatigue. It was eventually diagnosed as Hashimoto's Thyroid disease, although it took a radiation scan to detect. blood work did not show it.
2 years later, I am more fatigued than ever! I also had unexplained pain in my lower back. I was prescribed medications for relaxing muscles, pain meds, chiropractors, massage, physical Therapy. Nothing got me well. I was just coping with symptoms. I was then diagnosed with fibromyalgia.
It finally had a name, but that didn't change that there was nothing more that the Dr.'s could do. They were only able to just treat symptoms. The 'WHY' always existed. Within 5 years, I was bedridden. I could barely do the necessities of life. I ended up finding a Dr. from Scotland that discovered that Emotional Therapy could help. It did. I was able to get this to go dormant, but still didn't know what 'IT' was. I went on to be a Therapist for him. I worked my way up to Senior Mickel Therapist and was the Supervisor over other Therapist's throughout the USA and Canada. I wrote and published a book, did Public Speaking engagements and book signings.
January 2017 Before crap really hit the fan. Kim pictured on the left. |
Who knew what was coming? Because the 'WHY' remained. In June 2012, I broke out with Shingles. It was stressful period, as my Mother had been placed in Hospice. Shortly after, I started experiencing burning, pain, numbness, tingling in my feet, hands, lower legs and lower arms. I was diagnosed with unexplained Neuropathy and put on pain meds.I was also getting chronic sinus infections and Urinary tract infections.
I was stunned, when in 2013, I was getting completely different, but chronic illness again. This was much more life threatening. It started while remodeling our home. I began to experience difficulty breathing, difficulty swallowing, rashes, itching, sensitivities to things I'd been around my whole life. Multiple anaphylaxis. I am then diagnosed with asthma. I was put on inhalers, prednisone, given rescue inhalers, daily maintenance inhalers, epipens, allergy shots.
February 2017- Kim's illness is really starting to show. She notes that she has a Puffy face, just unwell looking. No more hiding it! |
The nightmare was just beginning. I was bedridden once again, every symptom from before, plus all these new ones. My life was not my own after this. Fast forward to Mother's Day, 2017. I have had anaphylaxis 15 times. I'm continually reacting to everything; pollen, pet dander, perfume, cleansers, foods.
I haven't had visitors, can't be around anyone or anything. I'm bed bound, weak, can't breathe, put on Home Health/Hospice, Oxygen.
I have sores in my mouth, ears, nose.
I am dying.
I am unofficially diagnosed with Mast Cell Disease/Mastocytosis. We start preparing for my funeral."
I asked Kim, at what point did she decide, "Ok, I'm really sick and just not getting any better by the advice of my doctor and need to try something different." She responded, "At this point, there was nowhere to go.
I was recommended the book, 'Medical Medium' by Anthony William. My hubby gets a copy, I read it and am 'STUNNED, SHOCKED AND ELATED;, all at the same time. The last 18 years explained in great detail. It all made sense. I was in Stage 4 Epstein Barr Virus, Shingles and underlying, chronic Streptococcus.
Why did I get better years before? Because I was in stage 3 of the Epstein Barr Virus, it was able to go dormant one last time. I was now in the final stage, 4. Add on Systemic Shingles, that is not really visible to the naked eye, and Strep. A deadly combination, that sadly is behind most chronic illness to date.
The Dr's just don't know yet. They will eventually. I started on the recommended foods, supplements, and teas. I got worse before I got better. It was a Living nightmare. Two months in, I left my bedroom, took off oxygen, got in the car and drove... this was indescribable."
Kim has had many dramatic health challenges she explains how they impacted her life, "Oh, Boy! Originally, when diagnosed with depression, I was able to continue working as a Nurse. I also owned my own company where I did Permanent Make-up, and co-owned a Medical billing company.Eventually, I was too sick to work and when on disability in 2002. Then, when I recovered the first time a few years later, I became a Mickel Therapist in 2008, wrote my book, treated clients, did speaking engagements and book signings. I did this until my now known shingles and reactivated Epstein Barr virus were to horrible to continue. I had to again return to disability in 2015.
I was pretty much homebound due to senstivitivities. I have begun a Tea company the last few months, while I continue to heal. It had given me something to do and help others in my position. I look forward to the day I am able to work full time. It's a great distraction right now. I am patiently waiting while I have full use of my legs and arms, as the Shingles virus caused severe nerve damage. I have balance issues and walking, lifting, etc... It's getting better."
July 23rd, 2017. Now, still on oxygen but bedbound |
I asked her, if her view on how current medical treatments and medication changed since her health challenges and if they had, how? Kim states, "Absolutely! I wish people would understand the Dr's don't know everything and be willing to go outside the box, and not rely on their limited knowledge on these Chronic Fatigue conditions."
As a Nurse, I understand we have a belief system, that doesn't want to be challenged. Your life may well depend on being open. If you go to the Dr. for the same condition, over and over, It's time to do your own research, starting with DIET. Who knew all the chemical we are exposed to are 'FEEDING' these pandemic condition's.
People must also understand that Dr's aren't trained to tell you that 'they don't know' what's wrong with you. They can't bill you for that! They are just 'practicing'... on 'YOU'. Most medications are a band-aid, they don't cure.To date, the Medical Medium's information is the only truth I've found. I was on a clean diet before, so it's the 'RIGHT' foods that are getting me well and avoiding chemical's."
Going in a little different direction, I asked Kim to describe herself in 3 words and she describes herself as Courageous, Kind, Balanced.
I went further by asking if there was a moment when she had to step back and laugh for a change otherwise she would cry about the challenges, she answered, "Yes.. I laugh now.. I was truly too ill before. Laughing, music, family are my favorite things."
At this present time her biggest struggle is, "My biggest struggle is being patient. I want to be completely well already. LOL! I am thrilled that I'm alive and getting well, but now that I have had a taste of life again, I'm ready to go! It could take a while to completely heal. It beats 6 feet under. HaHa!"
Something she is super excited about right now is, "I am excited to re-engage with my children, grandchildren, extended family and Friend's. Like I stated previously, my sensitivities prohibited me from everyone. Baby steps, so I don't irritate them. For now, a lot of video chats, short, in-person visits', so my body isn't triggered by anything.. It's really hard to explain what this all took from me....... unimaginable really!!!!
I inquired if there was a ritual, object or tool can she could not live without or that she must use everyday? Health related or not. Kim remarked, "MUSIC! It's my go to, every day... Of course, clean diet, MM (Medical Medium) recommended foods for EBV and Shingles. Daily detox from all known chemicals, pesticides, herbicides, fungicides, plastic, cleaners, solvents, radiation, chlorine, fluoride, There are the teas I created with the suggested herbs and supplements. It is easy and cost effective. getting well is costly, otherwise. I alternate them daily. Plus, I add Heavy Metal Detox suggestions. It's become my 'NEW NORMAL'.
Who knew all these things were feeding these problems? I sure never thought about it before."
Kim's "Go-to-make-you-happy-thing" to do when she needs strength is, "MUSIC.. always. My children and grandchildren, my new business; feeling useful again."
August 29th, 2017. Dr's have me on Home Health/Hospice |
When health challenges happen the dynamic at home and or work can change dramatically. I went on to ask her if this happened in her home. Kim says, "Everything has changed. I have vague memories of a life once lived. It's like a dream. No words...
Remember, this all started when my youngest was born. She is 23. All she remembers is me being sick, in crisis.Too sick to help her with homework when young.Then, the few years in between that I was better, but her just waiting, too scared to believe it's true. She's right, it wasn't. Then, Rushing me to the ER once again for anaphylaxis. "Mommy, don't die." I'd heard this for years. PTSD.
My oldest Grandson, running down the street towards where he knew I would appear, the first time I was able to visit, Not knowing what to do.. He had only seen me on video for a long time. I'm there in person, with a usual pink mask, weak, peaked looking, having lost 3/4 of my hair.. My 'birthday' this year..
Wow.. I do remember.. It's been quite scarring to us all. No words... I look forward to creating new memories, to one day over shadow this nightmare... I really don't have any more words... Work now consists of me developing my tea company."
Asked if she could change 1 thing in the medical community in regard to the challenges of being a patient what would that be? Kim responded, "Not to treat people like they are crazy. for them to e willing to educate about diet/chemicals."
Her favorite quote motto is, "It is right now!"
I asked Kim, how has sharing made an impact on you and your tribe or professionally? She, says, "I suppose maybe it helps educate and inspire."
Looking back on her health journey, she reflects on the question of what advice she would give someone just beginning to look for answers on their own path, she goes on to say that, "You too can be well. Take control of your health. Read label's. Know poison's, food,cleansers, water, meds, perfume, candle's, shampoo, make-up, etc..."
Happy New Year's eve, 2017- I'm out without a mask, celebrating with friends. First time in about a year |
If you would like to contact Kim for more about her story she can be reached on Facebook or by email at: Cormier-burleyqueen@gmail.com. You can also find information her Tea website is: Cleanse Teas . Kim says she gets her makeup from Savvy minerals is the makeup. She uses Young living essential oils and Doterra oils. Her household cleaners are made with essential oils, mainly Tea Tree, vinegar and water.
This is very inspiring. I am 36 and have been sick with an array of similar symptoms, blanket diagnosis's, auto-immune disorders and fibromyalgia since I was 25. I will be purchasing the book you sugguested and looking into your tea company. Thank you for sharing your story, it gives me hope.
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy this helped you. God bless and be patient. ❤
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